What happened to the person you fell in love with?
He or she still exists, and he or she would never have wanted to fall into this cycle of addiction and harm you. Addiction is a disease – and a family disease. Living with addiction is horrific, the whole family is affected. In order to understand talk to an experienced treatment specialist who helps families every day.
By talking to a specialist, you can gain a clearer picture of your own unique relationship and situation. Speak to us today, we can Help
Anyone who has been married or in a committed relationship with a person who is addicted knows that addiction is destructive. In some committed relationships, addiction isn’t something that comes up right away. Addiction in a marriage:
• May not be apparent at the beginning of the relationship
• Seems like normal drinking behaviors early in the relationship
• Develops after a short time together or Might develop after years together
•Might have been there all along Or it’s been hidden from you by your partner
While you may feel as though you are completely alone in your situation – it’s important to know that there are many other spouses and partners out there who are dealing with the same problems. There are groups that offer guidance and support and the chance to connect with other people who understand what you’re going through. Groups such as CoAnon or Alanon can help you to feel less isolated – and will help you learn how to live with a person who struggles with addiction.
Boundaries, it’s NOT okay. If your spouse or partner refuses treatment for addiction, the negative consequences will more than likely continue. Everyone is different and only you know your own situation – which is why only you can make the choice of when or if to detach with love or leave the relationship. Whether it is financial lines, verbal or physical abuse – know your limit and set a firm boundary
We provide Online Support & Counselling for people at all stages of help seeking:
- For first time help seekers
- For people waiting for treatment
- For people in treatment that require additional support, particularly after hours
- For people who have completed treatment and want to stay on track
- For people in recovery wanting to connect with others or prevent relapse
- For people supporting a significant other with a drug and alcohol problem (Families, friends)
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